I was aware of a theoretical difference between reacting and responding. Of course, I thought, I would much rather respond than react in situations. I just couldn’t get beyond scratching the surface of the concept. I then read about how I could distinguish reacting vs responding by how I felt after an event. I then…
Life Choices
All Of Me
Ugh, I’ve been noticing how I am more than happy to take full credit for my mistakes, but barely give myself credit for the things I am doing well. For instances, I’ve been faithfully practicing my banjo and making steady progress, but my first reaction about my playing is one of abject disgust. It is…
To Quit or Not to Quit
One of our society’s most cherished beliefs is if you try hard enough, you can achieve anything. We, as humans, cling to that life raft with the tenacity of a toddler with its blankie. If you find yourself quitting something (like trying to get pregnant) you may find yourself caught in the crossfire of your…
Taboo’s Silver Lining
Trauma and infertility, among others, are taboo subjects. You know, the ones that should only happen to other people during discussions in polite company. If you find yourself living a taboo, it can become a preoccupation, like the cold sore your tongue cannot help but exploring. I guarantee you won’t get many opportunities to feel…
I’m back!
After a long hiatus, I am excited to be back in the blogging saddle! Simply Not Conceivable now has a new look and a broader focus. I am including a copy of the text from the new About Me page below to elaborate on the blog game plan: “I am Ruby, a trauma and infertility/repeated miscarriage survivor, and I blog…